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Reader Question: How Do I Break Up With a Narcissist?
A reader asks:
How would you handle trying to get out of a relationship that is with a narcissist, not on an extreme level, but a narcissist? I just went to a gathering and he was even flirty with his best friends daughter? He just seems so strange now to me in more ways than I [...]
Reader Question-Should I Still Let My B/F Move In?
A reader asks:
I am looking for a unbias opinion in the following scenario. I am about to make the step of my boyfriend moving in with me and my children. We recently had a disagreement when one of my friends from work came over to help me as I was recovering from surgery [...]
Reader Question: How do I tell my friend that her boyfriend is an ass?
A Reader Asks:
My best friend has been dating her boyfriend for only a few months. But since they started dating he has taken almost complete control of her. He gets angry if she doesn’t tell him exactly where she is going and how long she will be. He can’t stand her to be away [...]
Reader Question: Can My Relationship With Mr. Unavailable Be Salvaged?
A reader asks:
I fell for Mr. Unavailable. Not only that, I moved halfway across the country for Mr. Unavailable. We broke up at 2yrs. I met him when I just turned 24, and he just turned 31. I am very attractive, and have the makings of a successful career in investment. [...]
Reader Question: How Long Do I Continue Being a Booty Call?
A reader asks:
I have a booty call relationship with this guy. I want it to be a relationship; he tells me he wants a 100 pound blonde. I’ll never be that. My last boyfriend left me for the same reason…because I’m not a skinny little thing. Anyway, this guy treats me like crap and my [...]
Reader Question: How Do I Talk to Women? I’m Always Tripping Myself Up!
A reader asks:
To start off I’m a 25 year old male, and my name is J. I feel kind of stupid for asking these questions, but I tend to trip myself up most of the time when it comes to these parts. Ok here’s the questions, what are the best topics to talk about with [...]
Reader Question: Help! I’m Torn Between 2 Men and Don’t Know What To Do!
A reader asks:
I am currently dating a younger man by 10 1/2 years. I am 42. We have many common interests and have always had an attraction to each other. I enjoy the way he allows me to not be so serious all of the time. What is hard for me now that we are [...]
Reader Question: What Are the Rules of a Break?
A reader asks:
It is common these days to hear that a couple that has been dating for awhile is on a “break”. My question is what are the rules to being on a break? Are both parties able to go on a date with others? Can they hook up with someone and not hear about [...]
Are Different Political Views a Deal Breaker?
While we didn’t get any reader questions in last week, we did come across this one over at the Plenty of Fish forums and thought it worthy of our, and your, consideration.
If you believe those websites that gauge your political disposition then I am a moderate conservative. So my question is; if someone has [...]
Reader Question- Is There a Right Age to Get Married?
A reader asks:
As a young adult with friends in their 20’s the common question is often asked, when are you getting married? My response is usually “when Hell freezes over”. It is usually a joke, because lets face it, none of us know when we want to say our vows. I am curious to know [...]
