Comments on: Why People Cheat http://20-forty.com/2009/07/03/why-people-cheat/ Because love isn't always 20/20! Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:45:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: searchingwithin http://20-forty.com/2009/07/03/why-people-cheat/comment-page-1/#comment-15094 searchingwithin Fri, 03 Jul 2009 15:21:57 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=2482#comment-15094 I don't believe that the deficeit always has to do with what their spouse is not supplying them. We all wear masks concealing our doubts and insecurities from the World, some of which we are not even consciously aware of, not to mention the fantasies that we all secretly have. Throughout it all we fight daily to keep everything on track, when what we really are wanting to do is let down our guard, and be able to live and have the good life that others appear to have, especially every time we turn on the TV, or open a magazine. Then along come someone that appears will take us away from it all, at least momentarily, and the desire all of a sudden outweighs the costs. Either way, cheating is a behavior that only the very needy display, that I myself was guilty of at one point in my life, which I will eventually write about on my blog, and yes I was very needy at the time. I experienced personally what type of person fall prey to its lure, and I don't like or respect what I saw, therefore, one of the reason I am soo very critical of cheating. That coupled with the fact I have also been on the receiving end of the deception. Neither place is a pretty place to be, and either place, is not an easy place to get over. Betrayal is ugly, no matter where you fall into the equation. Best Wishes <abbr><em>searchingwithin´s last blog post..<a href="http://openyourhearttothelove.blogspot.com/2009/07/i-am-not-tempted-by-anything-but.html" rel="nofollow">I Am Not Tempted By Anything But Temptation</a></abbr></em> I don’t believe that the deficeit always has to do with what their spouse is not supplying them. We all wear masks concealing our doubts and insecurities from the World, some of which we are not even consciously aware of, not to mention the fantasies that we all secretly have. Throughout it all we fight daily to keep everything on track, when what we really are wanting to do is let down our guard, and be able to live and have the good life that others appear to have, especially every time we turn on the TV, or open a magazine. Then along come someone that appears will take us away from it all, at least momentarily, and the desire all of a sudden outweighs the costs.

Either way, cheating is a behavior that only the very needy display, that I myself was guilty of at one point in my life, which I will eventually write about on my blog, and yes I was very needy at the time. I experienced personally what type of person fall prey to its lure, and I don’t like or respect what I saw, therefore, one of the reason I am soo very critical of cheating. That coupled with the fact I have also been on the receiving end of the deception. Neither place is a pretty place to be, and either place, is not an easy place to get over. Betrayal is ugly, no matter where you fall into the equation.

Best Wishes

searchingwithin´s last blog post..I Am Not Tempted By Anything But Temptation

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