Comments on: What Counts As Cheating?

By: SomethingSomething

SomethingSomething — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 13:27:57 +0000

Getting a lap dance from someone of the opposite sex while you are in a relationship or married should be considered a form of cheating and I very much consider it so. Why? Because it seems like people are going to no end with irrational technicalities about what counts and doesn’t–it’s like a point system. So, for example, “It’s cheating if lips are involved but it’s not cheating if there’s no intercourse of any sort.”

The lap dance thing is like a teaser–”But baby, it’s not like I kissed her or screwed her, she just danced in front and around me in the most sexual manner she could have possibly maneuvered her body to move.” LOOK, GUY, IT’S CHEATING! I don’t know about you ladies, but I sure as hell don’t want to think about my man voluntarily approaching another woman for some sleazy sexual arousal. That’s just gross.

By: Tina T

Tina T — Thu, 04 Jun 2009 03:56:05 +0000

I hear women complain all the time about men getting too chatty with women over the internet. I think that this is definitely a form of cheating. Plus, everyone is so pressed for time these days, if you have time to "chat" it should be in person and with your significant other. Tina T´s last blog post..Whose Opinion Matters When You’re In Love?

By: Holly Page

Holly Page — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 22:57:25 +0000

Interesting post! My guess is that it’s more important that couples discuss, and agree upon, the many interactions that could be considered cheating, even if their agreed upon definition isn’t what the majority thinks. It seems that most couples talk about it after the fact, though, after the facebook flirting or work crush has begun.

For me, it’s hard to come up with hard and fast rules about cheating sometimes, though. It can be contextual, like “I don’t care if you flirt with other women, but don’t flirt with that bitch.” It can be complicated, for sure.

By: Honey

Honey — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 16:56:23 +0000

I am going to write a sort-of post on this later today…someone myspaced me about how he wished we had dated in college…we both started reminiscing a little, and then he said something that led me to believe that he hasn’t read my profile in oh, the last THREE years and didn’t know I had a boyfriend. I thought we were just talking, but he was flirting!

I guess it’s been awhile since someone really flirted with me other than the BF, or I would have known it was going on

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