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By: Be careful. Be smart. Be safe. World Aids Day. | 20-forty.com

Be careful. Be smart. Be safe. World Aids Day. | 20-forty.com — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 11:17:57 +0000

[...] been talking a lot about sex lately. Kira has asked the question Why Have Sex? and talked about Pornography and Relationships. I’ve urged you to consider balance in your relationships and how sex is about intimacy and [...]

By: T

Mon, 24 Nov 2008 16:36:31 +0000

Amen! I completely agree with you. I enjoy it myself and probably own more movies than many of the men friends I know!! The problem is when it does become secretive. My ex and I got engaged on an evening after attending strip clubs. And then 14 years later, he's hiding the fact that he was watching internet porn though we owned movies that he knew I watched frequently! That's when it became more of a "cheating" thing. Oh yeah, and he was actually cheating too. Why make it a secret? Why not use it to spice things up?! I'm all about it. T´s last blog post..Allowing

By: Sex Myths-Are Women Turned on by Porn? | 20-forty.com

Sex Myths-Are Women Turned on by Porn? | 20-forty.com — Mon, 24 Nov 2008 10:02:51 +0000

[...] confessed that porn isn’t something she’s into in Pornography and Relationships. A lot of women are right in there with her, but there are women everywhere who do enjoy porn. [...]

By: So When Does Porn Become a Problem? | 20-forty.com

So When Does Porn Become a Problem? | 20-forty.com — Sun, 23 Nov 2008 10:05:28 +0000

[...] was right when she said that porn becomes a problem when it begins to replace or take away from sex in the relationship, and she was right. But there [...]

By: SINgleGIRL

SINgleGIRL — Sat, 22 Nov 2008 18:47:27 +0000

I'm with you on this one. I don't like porn, it kind of makes me squirm. But I don't care whether the man in my life does. I actually used to do date a guy who collected vintage and rare porn (he was kind of obsessed) and it did not have any negative affects on our sex life. I'd guess that a relationship that was negatively affected by porn probably had other issues to start with. The flip side of this, however, are single guys who don't get laid much and become obsessed with porn. I have, sadly, seen a few of them who have had their performance affected by porn. It's almost as if when they finally get a chance to be with a real woman they get confused and try to replay what they've seen on screen - and porn is usually not a good reflection of happy, healthy sex. Big ICK. SINgleGIRL´s last blog post..Waking Up With Someone

By: Honey

Honey — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 16:33:05 +0000

Well, I agree! I think it's when people aren't okay with it that it all starts to be underground and stressful anyway. It's just a masturbatory aid for most guys, and I certainly masturbate enough that I wouldn't begrudge him... Honey´s last blog post..Public Service Announcement: Porn

By: It’s About Making Babies! » Blog Archive » 2f: About porn

It’s About Making Babies! » Blog Archive » 2f: About porn — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 15:26:57 +0000

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