Comments on: Girls, Pull Your Heads Out! I Am NOT Your Problem! http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/ Because love isn't always 20/20! Fri, 12 Mar 2010 22:45:42 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: lisaq http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-3861 lisaq Fri, 31 Oct 2008 10:48:30 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=669#comment-3861 Yep Jaime. That's where the problem. Sadly, you're also right about getting someone to see that. Yep Jaime. That’s where the problem. Sadly, you’re also right about getting someone to see that.

]]> By: Jaime http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-3848 Jaime Thu, 30 Oct 2008 13:25:21 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=669#comment-3848 "The problem here is within the relationship itself." You're 100% right, but unfortunately the chances of getting someone to see that instead of blaming someone else are slim to none. <abbr><em>Jaime´s last blog post..<a href="http://thepqnation.com/pjammy/?p=332" rel="nofollow">You’re my boy, Blue! You’re my boy!</a></abbr></em> “The problem here is within the relationship itself.”

You’re 100% right, but unfortunately the chances of getting someone to see that instead of blaming someone else are slim to none.

Jaime´s last blog post..You’re my boy, Blue! You’re my boy!

]]> By: lisaq http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-3830 lisaq Wed, 29 Oct 2008 11:14:48 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=669#comment-3830 It's creepy isn't it Sane and Single? Drama is definitely something I can live without! Exactly Honey. Girlfriend needs to look closer to home. It’s creepy isn’t it Sane and Single? Drama is definitely something I can live without!

Exactly Honey. Girlfriend needs to look closer to home.

]]> By: Honey http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-3818 Honey Tue, 28 Oct 2008 23:26:53 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=669#comment-3818 It is hard to blame the person you love and trust, but I agree, that is just what this woman needed (needs?) to do. Her husband betrayed her trust, not you! <abbr><em>Honey´s last blog post..<a href="http://honeyandlance.com/he-ripped-my-clothes-off" rel="nofollow">He Ripped My Clothes Off!</a></abbr></em> It is hard to blame the person you love and trust, but I agree, that is just what this woman needed (needs?) to do. Her husband betrayed her trust, not you!

Honey´s last blog post..He Ripped My Clothes Off!

]]> By: saneandsingle http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-3817 saneandsingle Tue, 28 Oct 2008 23:11:34 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=669#comment-3817 I've had this happen to me on myspace also! Usually, I would say something to the man. He would claim it was an ex or some obsessed girl. I just dropped both of them! Too much drama! Someone was lying, and they needed to work that out themselves! <abbr><em>saneandsingle´s last blog post..<a href="http://saneandsingle.blogspot.com/2008/10/whats-your-dating-persona.html" rel="nofollow">What's your dating persona?</a></abbr></em> I’ve had this happen to me on myspace also! Usually, I would say something to the man. He would claim it was an ex or some obsessed girl. I just dropped both of them! Too much drama! Someone was lying, and they needed to work that out themselves!

saneandsingle´s last blog post..What’s your dating persona?

]]> By: craze http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-3815 craze Tue, 28 Oct 2008 19:04:17 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=669#comment-3815 I had that same thing happen to me not too long ago. I've also had the new wife of a friend call me and ask why number is in his phone book. Uh.. why don't you ask him? That is the sure sign of an insecure woman. I'd ignore her for now and if it happens one more time do what Brad said. <abbr><em>craze´s last blog post..<a href="http://crazedreamersthoughts.blogspot.com/2008/10/yes-pedro-there-is-santa-claus.html" rel="nofollow">Yes, Pedro there is a Santa Claus</a></abbr></em> I had that same thing happen to me not too long ago. I’ve also had the new wife of a friend call me and ask why number is in his phone book. Uh.. why don’t you ask him? That is the sure sign of an insecure woman. I’d ignore her for now and if it happens one more time do what Brad said.

craze´s last blog post..Yes, Pedro there is a Santa Claus

]]> By: lisaq http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-3794 lisaq Mon, 27 Oct 2008 10:13:53 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=669#comment-3794 Me either Bobby. I think it's easier to blame the other person rather than admit there is so much trouble in Paradise. Haha Susan! A good slap upside the head is exactly what they need! Definitely a waste of time CurvyGirl. And thank you! :D Me either Bobby. I think it’s easier to blame the other person rather than admit there is so much trouble in Paradise.

Haha Susan! A good slap upside the head is exactly what they need!

Definitely a waste of time CurvyGirl. And thank you! :D

]]> By: CurvyGurl http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-3776 CurvyGurl Sun, 26 Oct 2008 19:51:06 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=669#comment-3776 You're right, Lisa. Some women think it's easier to blame the suspected other women for the man's trangressions. I despise that passive-agressive nonsense. Talk about a waste of time and a free pass for the guy to repeat. Great post! <abbr><em>CurvyGurl´s last blog post..<a href="http://curvygurlchronicles.blogspot.com/2008/10/til-death-or-argument-do-we-part.html" rel="nofollow">'Til Death (Or An Argument) Do We Part</a></abbr></em> You’re right, Lisa. Some women think it’s easier to blame the suspected other women for the man’s trangressions. I despise that passive-agressive nonsense. Talk about a waste of time and a free pass for the guy to repeat. Great post!

CurvyGurl´s last blog post..‘Til Death (Or An Argument) Do We Part

]]> By: Susan http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-3769 Susan Sun, 26 Oct 2008 16:22:00 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=669#comment-3769 That whole situation sucks, I just went through that myself a month ago. When my husband cheated on me, I didn't blame the other woman involved, I blammed his ass. I know tons of women out there that blame the other woman, and they really need a good slap upside the head. I like the comment Brad made about checking her ISP and myspace thing, I never would have thought about that. Good to know if I'm ever in that position again. That whole situation sucks, I just went through that myself a month ago. When my husband cheated on me, I didn’t blame the other woman involved, I blammed his ass. I know tons of women out there that blame the other woman, and they really need a good slap upside the head. I like the comment Brad made about checking her ISP and myspace thing, I never would have thought about that. Good to know if I’m ever in that position again.

]]> By: bobby http://20-forty.com/2008/10/26/girls-pull-your-heads-out-i-am-not-your-problem/comment-page-1/#comment-3766 bobby Sun, 26 Oct 2008 15:31:50 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=669#comment-3766 I never understood why woman have gotten in attack mode to the other woman, when in fact it is he that needs some attention. Even when the other woman is imagined, as is the case here. Men do this as well-just as confusing. Side note: I posted something on my blog recently about the "Status" on some profiles and what, "It's complicated" means. Sometimes, "Separated" or other statuses aren't available. <abbr><em>bobby´s last blog post..<a href="http://bobbyboys.blogspot.com/2008/10/cohabitation-is-it-right-for-you.html" rel="nofollow">Cohabitation, is it right for you?</a></abbr></em> I never understood why woman have gotten in attack mode to the other woman, when in fact it is he that needs some attention. Even when the other woman is imagined, as is the case here. Men do this as well-just as confusing.

Side note:
I posted something on my blog recently about the “Status” on some profiles and what, “It’s complicated” means. Sometimes, “Separated” or other statuses aren’t available.

bobby´s last blog post..Cohabitation, is it right for you?

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