Comments on: How Soon Is Too Soon To Start a New Relationship? http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/ Because love isn't always 20/20! Thu, 09 Sep 2010 07:05:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: lisaq http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-6596 lisaq Thu, 08 Jan 2009 12:41:35 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=618#comment-6596 I don't know LALA. It's a tricky situation. Personally, I'd stay away from the dude. It could stir up all kinds of trouble. I don’t know LALA. It’s a tricky situation. Personally, I’d stay away from the dude. It could stir up all kinds of trouble.

]]> By: LALA http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-6581 LALA Wed, 07 Jan 2009 19:59:13 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=618#comment-6581 i know soon can sometimes be just the right time or too soon... but here is the deal, i just broke up with my bf, who almost went out with for a year, right after thanksgiving for the 3rd time, the other 2 we went back because we had gotten used to each other, but this time is different because there is someone else i used to like even before i went out with my ex bf, and there is a connection between us, but the thing is that they know each other, and i know my bf loved me more than i loved him, they play basketball together, and you could say they are 'friends', which is the worst part because i really like this guy well, this guys says one of us should talk to him and tell him but i'm not sure if it is or if my ex would look at him differently and then things would change between them (i don't mind my ex bf getting mad at me, but i do mind that he gets mad with this guy) anyways... any advice? please LA i know soon can sometimes be just the right time or too soon…

but here is the deal, i just broke up with my bf, who almost went out with for a year, right after thanksgiving for the 3rd time, the other 2 we went back because we had gotten used to each other,

but this time is different because there is someone else i used to like even before i went out with my ex bf, and there is a connection between us, but the thing is that they know each other, and i know my bf loved me more than i loved him, they play basketball together, and you could say they are ‘friends’, which is the worst part because i really like this guy

well, this guys says one of us should talk to him and tell him but i’m not sure if it is or if my ex would look at him differently and then things would change between them (i don’t mind my ex bf getting mad at me, but i do mind that he gets mad with this guy)

anyways…

any advice? please

LA

]]> By: lisaq http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-1280 lisaq Wed, 24 Sep 2008 11:04:50 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=618#comment-1280 What I mean king is that it's about YOU...not about her. It's about how soon you're ready. What she's doing is completely irrelevant. lisaqs last blog post..<a href="http://20-forty.com/2008/09/24/what-ive-learned-about-online-dating/" rel="nofollow">What I’ve Learned About Online Dating</a> What I mean king is that it’s about YOU…not about her. It’s about how soon you’re ready. What she’s doing is completely irrelevant.

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]]> By: king1876 http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-1276 king1876 Wed, 24 Sep 2008 00:47:18 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=618#comment-1276 all i know is im not go stand and wait like a dummy move on find a new better GF. http://king1876.wordpress.com/ king1876s last blog post..<a href="http://king1876.wordpress.com/2008/09/23/mariah-carey-nick-cannon-pregnancy-news/" rel="nofollow">Mariah Carey & Nick Cannon Pregnancy News</a> all i know is im not go stand and wait like a dummy move on find a new better GF.
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]]> By: lisaq http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-1203 lisaq Wed, 17 Sep 2008 10:45:40 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=618#comment-1203 Maybe not Gwen. I think you've waited long enough girl. Hmmm King. I dunno. It's not about her. lisaqs last blog post..<a href="http://20-forty.com/2008/09/17/reheating-old-soup/" rel="nofollow">Reheating Old Soup</a> Maybe not Gwen. I think you’ve waited long enough girl.

Hmmm King. I dunno. It’s not about her.

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]]> By: king1876 http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-1201 king1876 Wed, 17 Sep 2008 03:21:47 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=618#comment-1201 asap, shees moving on why shouldnt i http://king1876.wordpress.com/ king1876s last blog post..<a href="http://king1876.wordpress.com/2008/09/17/how-to-spot-a-bitch-and-what-does-fuck-mean/" rel="nofollow">HOW TO SPOT A BITCH and What does fuck mean?</a> asap, shees moving on why shouldnt i
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]]> By: auntiegwen http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-1193 auntiegwen Tue, 16 Sep 2008 19:10:24 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=618#comment-1193 ok I was with my ex husband for 21 years, that means I'd have to wait for 10 years to date someone ????? maybe not auntiegwens last blog post..<a href="http://auntiegwensdiary.blogspot.com/2008/09/glasvegas-at-plug.html" rel="nofollow">Glasvegas at The Plug</a> ok I was with my ex husband for 21 years, that means I’d have to wait for 10 years to date someone ?????

maybe not

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]]> By: lisaq http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-1189 lisaq Tue, 16 Sep 2008 11:25:04 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=618#comment-1189 Self awareness is the key Cheekie, but I think that comes with some time and self reflection. If you jump right back into it, I'm not sure you've given yourself that opportunity. I see what you're saying HAF but I think the only person who can heal your heart is you. Thanks Honey. Good to know I haven't completely lost my mind! :D I think so too Craze. It's a hurt and hurts need time to heal. Me too SINgleGIRL but I've learned over time that jumping right back in just doesn't work for me. Yep sane and single, relationships hopping is not for me. Not anymore. Self awareness is the key Cheekie, but I think that comes with some time and self reflection. If you jump right back into it, I’m not sure you’ve given yourself that opportunity.

I see what you’re saying HAF but I think the only person who can heal your heart is you.

Thanks Honey. Good to know I haven’t completely lost my mind! :D

I think so too Craze. It’s a hurt and hurts need time to heal.

Me too SINgleGIRL but I’ve learned over time that jumping right back in just doesn’t work for me.

Yep sane and single, relationships hopping is not for me. Not anymore.

]]> By: saneandsingle http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-1179 saneandsingle Tue, 16 Sep 2008 00:30:48 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=618#comment-1179 I was gonna tell you that getting over someone takes half as long as the relationship itself is one of Charlotte's (from Sex and the City) rules of dating! I see Honey already did that! LOL I'm not one to enter into relationships lightly, as it is, so I definitely won't hop out of one and into another! saneandsingles last blog post..<a href="http://saneandsingle.blogspot.com/2008/09/oh-yeah-im-still-celibate-by-way-this.html" rel="nofollow">Must have it....</a> I was gonna tell you that getting over someone takes half as long as the relationship itself is one of Charlotte’s (from Sex and the City) rules of dating! I see Honey already did that! LOL

I’m not one to enter into relationships lightly, as it is, so I definitely won’t hop out of one and into another!

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]]> By: SINgleGIRL http://20-forty.com/2008/09/15/how-soon-is-too-soon-to-start-a-new-relationship/comment-page-1/#comment-1178 SINgleGIRL Tue, 16 Sep 2008 00:26:57 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=618#comment-1178 I'm with NML on this one. I usually start to date again right away (life is short), but sometimes I need more time. The needing more time doesn't have anything to do with how long I was in the relationship. SINgleGIRLs last blog post..<a href="http://sex-lies-dating.blogspot.com/2008/09/needs-and-wants.html" rel="nofollow">Needs and Wants</a> I’m with NML on this one. I usually start to date again right away (life is short), but sometimes I need more time. The needing more time doesn’t have anything to do with how long I was in the relationship.

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