Comments on: Overcoming Sexual Inhibitions http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/ Because love isn't always 20/20! Wed, 07 Jan 2009 00:22:22 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6.3 By: The Value Of Virginity http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/#comment-1643 The Value Of Virginity Mon, 29 Sep 2008 10:00:57 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=614#comment-1643 [...] mentioned before that I became sexually promiscuous in high school. This was how it began. It was a vicious cycle which took almost 30 years to break and one that [...] [...] mentioned before that I became sexually promiscuous in high school. This was how it began. It was a vicious cycle which took almost 30 years to break and one that [...]

]]> By: king1876 http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/#comment-1155 king1876 Sat, 13 Sep 2008 00:38:56 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=614#comment-1155 this stuff crazy lol http://king1876.wordpress.com/ king1876s last blog post..<a href="http://king1876.wordpress.com/2008/09/12/the-new-i-pod-nano/" rel="nofollow">THE NEW I POD NANO</a> this stuff crazy lol
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]]> By: lisaq http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/#comment-1141 lisaq Thu, 11 Sep 2008 20:51:04 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=614#comment-1141 I have to say that the younger guys have helped me overcome several of my inhibitions Lance. It's actually one of the reasons I prefer to date them. Oh and I love porn! Maybe I need to watch it more. ;) I have to say that the younger guys have helped me overcome several of my inhibitions Lance. It’s actually one of the reasons I prefer to date them. Oh and I love porn! Maybe I need to watch it more. ;)

]]> By: Lance http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/#comment-1133 Lance Thu, 11 Sep 2008 13:24:05 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=614#comment-1133 @Lisaq, et al: I too was sexually inhibited when I was younger and it took the right partner for me to bust out and embrace my inner kink. Now, I'm all into dirty talk, spanking, hair pulling, kinkiness, etc etc. The key for me was dating a girl that was younger--seven year age gap. I felt so comfortable being in the driver seat during the deed, that I started experimenting and going a little nuts. It all worked and now I feel very comfortable with any partner doing whatever I want. What else helped? Porn! Watching a lot of porn inspires and conditions you to normalize fantasy. I also read a couple of ebooks about bedroom game that put me over the last hurdles. They broke down what the turnons are and why. @Lisaq, et al: I too was sexually inhibited when I was younger and it took the right partner for me to bust out and embrace my inner kink. Now, I’m all into dirty talk, spanking, hair pulling, kinkiness, etc etc. The key for me was dating a girl that was younger–seven year age gap. I felt so comfortable being in the driver seat during the deed, that I started experimenting and going a little nuts. It all worked and now I feel very comfortable with any partner doing whatever I want.

What else helped? Porn! Watching a lot of porn inspires and conditions you to normalize fantasy. I also read a couple of ebooks about bedroom game that put me over the last hurdles. They broke down what the turnons are and why.

]]> By: Julia http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/#comment-1121 Julia Wed, 10 Sep 2008 15:06:56 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=614#comment-1121 Thank you for sharing this. That’s really great write. I was thinking about this topic cause we have a discussion at the club seekwealthy.com. Thank you so much. Thank you for sharing this. That’s really great write. I was thinking about this topic cause we have a discussion at the club seekwealthy.com. Thank you so much.

]]> By: lisaq http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/#comment-1055 lisaq Fri, 05 Sep 2008 10:21:33 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=614#comment-1055 You're right Craze. It's just another mountain to climb and I'm becoming one hell of a mountain climber! lisaqs last blog post..<a href="http://20-forty.com/2008/09/05/not-eligible-for-dating%E2%80%A6ever/" rel="nofollow">Not Eligible for Dating…Ever!</a> You’re right Craze. It’s just another mountain to climb and I’m becoming one hell of a mountain climber!

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]]> By: craze http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/#comment-1041 craze Thu, 04 Sep 2008 15:35:08 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=614#comment-1041 I think a lot of women have the same sexual inhibitions. I know I do for very much the same reasons as you. I think it does get better as we age, mature and grow. We have to think of it like anything else in our life. We know what we want, we need to express it. And it gets easier the more you learn to communicate those needs. crazes last blog post..<a href="http://crazedreamersthoughts.blogspot.com/2008/09/great-white-hunter.html" rel="nofollow">The Great White Hunter</a> I think a lot of women have the same sexual inhibitions. I know I do for very much the same reasons as you. I think it does get better as we age, mature and grow. We have to think of it like anything else in our life. We know what we want, we need to express it. And it gets easier the more you learn to communicate those needs.

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]]> By: lisaq http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/#comment-1037 lisaq Thu, 04 Sep 2008 11:16:56 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=614#comment-1037 BradK I think you misunderstand the use of the word conservative. In this case, it has nothing to do with politics. It is used to mean more traditional in style and manner...something I definitely am not. Thanks NML! Glad to be of service! ;) We would love, love, love for you to write a post on the topic for us! Honey, MapDot is indeed a huge hurdle! I think you've definitely hit upon something with the right partner thing. I think that would go a long way in my communication issues in general as well as sexually. I'm glad you've found a great coloring book Kira. I think you are on your way! Awww Gwen. You rock. Hard. Oh girl, I can do the dirty texting thing too. I blush, but I can do it! ;) lisaqs last blog post..<a href="http://20-forty.com/2008/09/04/the-ethics-of-having-children-guest-post/" rel="nofollow">The Ethics of Having Children-Guest Post</a> BradK I think you misunderstand the use of the word conservative. In this case, it has nothing to do with politics. It is used to mean more traditional in style and manner…something I definitely am not.

Thanks NML! Glad to be of service! ;) We would love, love, love for you to write a post on the topic for us!

Honey, MapDot is indeed a huge hurdle! I think you’ve definitely hit upon something with the right partner thing. I think that would go a long way in my communication issues in general as well as sexually.

I’m glad you’ve found a great coloring book Kira. I think you are on your way!

Awww Gwen. You rock. Hard. Oh girl, I can do the dirty texting thing too. I blush, but I can do it! ;)
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]]> By: auntiegwen http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/#comment-1034 auntiegwen Wed, 03 Sep 2008 19:06:24 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=614#comment-1034 Communication is the key to everything. The more you figure out yourself the easier it is to communicate with others. I think you're tremendous whether you do or don't talk dirty. Incidentally I don't usually but apparently I'm quite talented in the dirty text department !!! auntiegwens last blog post..<a href="http://auntiegwensdiary.blogspot.com/2008/09/best-laid-plans.html" rel="nofollow">The Best Laid Plans</a> Communication is the key to everything. The more you figure out yourself the easier it is to communicate with others.

I think you’re tremendous whether you do or don’t talk dirty.

Incidentally I don’t usually but apparently I’m quite talented in the dirty text department !!!

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]]> By: kira http://20-forty.com/2008/09/03/overcoming-sexual-inhibitions/#comment-1028 kira Wed, 03 Sep 2008 17:45:06 +0000 http://20-forty.com/?p=614#comment-1028 Honestly, there are posts of my mom's that I know better than to read. I thought that this would be one of them. We are way more open with each other than most mom-daughter duos but we keep what we discuss to generalizations. I decided to read the post because I noticed the comments and they made me curious. I am not so different from my mom. While I was not promiscuous in high school and still am not, I can relate to having sexual inhibitions. For me, I have noticed that I am way less inhibited now as opposed to even just a year ago. I believe it is partially due to my partners. With my ex bf, I really could have cared less to have sex at all. It was boring and mundane but I felt like if I said something he would ridicule me and just want to stick to what he liked. Now, however, I am with someone that drives me wild even just to think of him. I have definitely come out of my shell and I think a lot of it has to do with the sexual chemistry that he and I have together. So I guess that all being said, I am with Honey. Meeting the right person IS a great help. Brad I have to confess that I don't even know what you are talking about. Mom mentioned "conservative," true, but it wasn't in terms of conservative vs. liberal in politics. It seems that you pulled that tangent out of nowhere.... Honestly, there are posts of my mom’s that I know better than to read. I thought that this would be one of them. We are way more open with each other than most mom-daughter duos but we keep what we discuss to generalizations. I decided to read the post because I noticed the comments and they made me curious.

I am not so different from my mom. While I was not promiscuous in high school and still am not, I can relate to having sexual inhibitions. For me, I have noticed that I am way less inhibited now as opposed to even just a year ago. I believe it is partially due to my partners.

With my ex bf, I really could have cared less to have sex at all. It was boring and mundane but I felt like if I said something he would ridicule me and just want to stick to what he liked. Now, however, I am with someone that drives me wild even just to think of him. I have definitely come out of my shell and I think a lot of it has to do with the sexual chemistry that he and I have together.

So I guess that all being said, I am with Honey. Meeting the right person IS a great help.

Brad I have to confess that I don’t even know what you are talking about. Mom mentioned “conservative,” true, but it wasn’t in terms of conservative vs. liberal in politics. It seems that you pulled that tangent out of nowhere….

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