Losing Your V-Card: Big Deal or Big Whoop?

You’re young, in love (or so you think) and most likely letting your hormones guide your actions. One night things get hot, steamy, and clothes go flying off. He gets out the condom but it is the first time for both of you and putting it on looks much easier in porn. The first one [...]

The Value Of Virginity

Virginity is one of those rare things that, once lost, can never be recovered. There are many things in life that if lost can be recovered or, at the least, replaced. Virginity is not one of them. In fact, the loss of it can change everything and can, literally, completely changed your future.
And yet, in [...]

Lisaq’s Dating Resume

So, sort of in jest on the What I’ve Learned About Online Dating post, I mentioned creating a dating resume to take on first meets. Then I thought, you know, that ain’t a half bad idea. Could serve as sort of a profile of sorts as well. I did a little research and found that [...]

So, There’s This Boy-Guest Post

By Kaci
That’s usually how I begin telling this story. The rest goes like this- So there’s this boy…ok maybe I shouldn’t say boy…so there’s this guy I work with. He’s perfect. He’s cute, funny, a hard worker, nice body, an all around amazing guy. So what’s the problem? You probably could have guessed it. He [...]

Hooray For Support Systems!

I have been on this Earth for just 24 short years and in those few years I have seen and been through more than my fair share of hardships. However, something I have always known, but have just come to realize in the past week, is that I have also had my fair share of [...]

What I’ve Learned About Online Dating

I’ve been dating online off and on pretty much since my divorce and I’ve learned a thing or two. Thought it only right to share with you!

My definition of recent is very different than most people’s. When I say my pictures are recent, I’m talking about within the last 6 months. For some people, recent [...]

The Bitch That Is PMS

Don’t touch me, don’t look at me
Don’t kiss me, don’t hold me.
I don’t want to cuddle, I don’t want sex
I want chocolate and comfy bed.
I feel bitchy, I feel fat
I want a glass of wine and a bath.
You are annoying and pissing me off
I want you to go away, I want you to stop.
I have [...]

Not Today…

Most days I embrace being single. I am happy and living a very full life. Today is not one of those days.
Today I am struggling. I feel alone and sad. I think it’s a combination of things. TDIB moving. Firing G as my BFF. People I care about struggling. Disastrous first dates. It feels very [...]

Men Come and Go…Friendships Are Forever

Here’s the scenario. You and your closest friends have met a group of guys and you establish a circle of friends kind of thing. Then, after a night of partying, there is some kind of pairing off. You start romanticizing and thinking how cool it is that you’ve met these guys and they’re friends and [...]

Thou Shalt Not Smother

Dear Smothery, Stalker Type Dude,
With regret, I’m writing to tell you that you have failed the bullshit test. You remember, I told you that I needed a man in my life who could put up with my bullshit and well, sadly, that man is not you. It was sheer coincidence that the bullshit test came [...]

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