Until Death Do Us Part- Or Not

For my Composition class last semester, I had to write about something in my life that made me feel like an outsider in comparison to others. I chose divorce. Out of my friends, I was the only one whose parents weren’t married and I felt out of place at times. I decided to share my [...]

Written on August 31, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 6 Comments

Men’s Rules for Women

Once again here is some TGIF humor for your enjoyment. Guys, this one is for you. Have a great weekend everyone!
1. Learn to work the toilet seat: if it’s up put it down.
2. Don’t cut your hair. Ever.
3. Don’t make us guess.
4. If you ask a question you don’t want an answer to, expect an [...]

Written on August 29, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 4 Comments

Say Yes To Sex Before Commitment

By Lance
Here’s an age-old question I want to address: Should you have sex with your partner before or after establishing a committed relationship?
Since I’m the resident player around these parts, you can probably guess my answer. My answer is yup, sleep first, committed relationship after. It’s worthwhile for me to break it down.
My take [...]

Written on August 28, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 14 Comments

Say What?!

I’m not really big into online dating but, by the same token, I am not opposed to it. I have a myspace profile but I created the profile with the intent of keeping in touch with friends, not finding a mate. That’s not to say that I am completely against conversing through messages and possibly [...]

Written on August 27, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 5 Comments

Why I Don’t Owe You a Reply…

Dear Online Dater Dude,
While I’m flattered that my profile, or more likely, my picture interest you and I appreciate that you took the time to email me, that act does not place any responsibility on me whatsoever. If I email you back, I’m interested. If I don’t, I’m not. It’s that simple.
Your email didn’t get [...]

Written on August 26, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 13 Comments

Reader Question-What If He Overreacts?

A new reader asks:
I’m new to your website. I followed a link from baggagereclaim and discovered you and your daughter’s site. My question is this:
I am 45 years old and my boyfriend is 61. I have been divorced just over a year but began seeing T a little over 2 years ago, [...]

Written on August 25, 2008 | Posted in Ask 20-forty.com, Featured | 10 Comments

Leave Me Alone (I’m Lonely)

I mentioned this fabulous song by Pink when answering a reader question recently and the more I listened to it, the more I thought that it just really has the perfect message. Here are some of the lyrics:
Go away
Give me a chance to miss you
Say goodbye
It’ll make me want to kiss you
I love you so
Much [...]

Written on August 24, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 9 Comments

Men are like….

Here is some humor for your TGIF enjoyment. I didn’t not write these but collected them from various websites. Men have no fear, I am not out to bash you and am seeking out some female jokes as well….
Men are like coolers…..load them with beer and you can take them anywhere.
Men are like chocolate bars….sweet, [...]

Written on August 22, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 1 Comment

Communication & the Fallback Girl

Communication continues to be one of the difficult things in the world for me. It is the one area of my life and relationships in which I feel I’ve made little progress. As such, it causes me much frustration, and I recognize that the frustration itself may in turn actually keep me from making progress. [...]

Written on August 21, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 6 Comments

The Crazy (Ex)Girlfriend

I hate her. I don’t even know her and yet I couldn’t dislike her more. She is trashy, nosy, high maintenance, bi-polar, and worst of all, my ex boyfriend’s new girlfriend.
I’m Jealous?
Most of these feelings stem from jealousy. The silly part is I don’t want him and yet I don’t want her to have him [...]

Written on August 20, 2008 | Posted in Featured | 7 Comments
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