Online Dating 101-Thou Shalt Not Smother, Stalk, or Otherwise Irritate

Point #3-How to Get the Guy…Advice For the Ladies: Get a life.
Men do not want to be smothered. They want their space. They want someone who is interesting and has interests outside of their own. Any man worth his salt will be curious about the fabulousness that is your life, so make it fabulous.
Apparently not [...]

The Girl in the Mirror

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I have to start with this. There was no malicious intent in the recent Assclowns & Douchebags series. Even so, it seems I have been called out so to speak. This comment was received before the post was removed. Indeed, it was the reason the posts were removed.
what a buttload of myopic drivvel with [...]

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Sadly, I have had to temporarily remove recent posts. I’ll post more information later and, hopefully, will be able to repost those that have been removed.Thanks for your patience and support,lisaq

Assclowns & Douchebags- The Wrap Up

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The divorce from #4 was final 11 days before our 3rd anniversary. It was a bumpy road. I mean they all were really but #4 was mean and just narcissistic enough to make it a living hell. When it was final and the dust settled the sense of relief was like [...]

Assclowns & Douchebags- #4

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This is a long one kids!
After #3 was finally gone, I began to pick up the pieces of my shattered life and finances. My biggest concern, of course, were my girls. Beautifuleldestdaughter talks to this day about how much she hated him and she couldn’t figure out what she’d done to [...]

Wordless Wednesday Eye Candy-Open Call

Could this be you? Lately, I’m having trouble finding pictures of sexy men (well, that aren’t copyrighted anyway) to post for my Wordless Wednesday Eye Candy posts. So I had this fabulous thought! Why not put out an open call to my readers?
I’d love to post some fabulous pictures of sexy 40s Singleness [...]

Assclowns & Douchebags- #3

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Coming back to Kansas to finish college was one of the first steps I took in gaining some self confidence. Unfortunately, meeting up with #3 did nothing to further that.

#3
I have no qualms at all calling a spade a spade in this case. He was almost the biggest assclown of them [...]

Assclowns & Douchebags- #2

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Reeling from the effects of the marriage/divorce, I was a mess. My mom’s only concern was what the people of the town thought. It was, after all, a reflection on her.
I returned once again to old patterns of promiscuity and partying for awhile. Then I met #2.
#2
I hesitate to straight up [...]

Assclowns & Douchebags- #1

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Special thanks to NML & Lance for the title inspiration because really no other words describe them as well.

The Men
In an effort to work on clearing my belief that I’m damaged merchandise and a failure because I’ve been married 4 times, I thought it might be a good idea to take [...]

The Journey Begins…Again…

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It was a little more than a year ago that I came home from work, turned on Oprah and heard her say that I could have anything I wanted simply by asking for it. That was the first I’d heard of “The Secret” and the law of attraction, but it was enough for me [...]

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