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The Six-Step Guide To Using Your Intuition-Part V
If you haven’t read Parts I, II, III, and IV you can read them here:
The Six-Step Guide To Using Your Intuition-Part I
The Six-Step Guide To Using Your Intuition-Part II
The Six-Step Guide To Using Your Intuition-Part III
The Six-Step Guide To Using Your Intuition-Part IV
From Christian Carter here’s step five:
Step #5: Act On Your Intuition With The “Long-Term” In MindYears ago I had a huge learning experience
when it came to using and listening to my
intuition in the right way.This story is an important example of the right
way and the wrong way to use your intuitive powers.A situation came up at work where I thought I
was being watched and scrutinized. This worried me
because several people had recently been let go,
and I wondered if I was next.So what should I do? I asked myself.
I decided to push myself even harder at work
to try and show them how valuable I was in hopes
that I would keep my job.But that uncomfortable and nervous feeling
in my stomach that came with my intuition about
their scrutiny of my work stayed with me for the
next several weeks.As it turns out, my managers sat down with me
one day and instead of firing me, they asked me
to manage a division in the company.They had been noticing my hard work lately and
were ready to give me more responsibility.Thinking back, I realized that although my
intuition had alerted me that something was going
on, my fears and insecurity almost “blew it” for
me because I got on the defensive with my superiors
and because I had wasted weeks feeling worried and
stressed.This was not a good use of my intuition.
So how does this lesson apply to the men in
your life, dating and relationships?Well, take a man with some of those common
negative male behaviors--fear of intimacy
-inability to commit
-flirting, cheating
-withdrawalIntuition can help you see past these things
and understand the deeper psychological stuff
that’s hiding beneath the surface.And, intuition is probably the best tool for
being able to identify good and bad qualities
in a man.Some men are, unfortunately, just good at
playing the part of an emotionally stable,
available and loving guy for a while, even if
they aren’t.So it’s really up to YOU to learn to get to
the “deeper emotional truth” of any man you’re
interested in or dating.And yeah, I know men can be VERY frustrating.
In a better world, men would be able to tell
you honestly and sincerely where they were at.But as you can guess, a man will basically
NEVER be able to tell you clearly and honestly
everything he feels or what he wants when you ask
him.
This will be the final post in the series. It seems either Christian can’t count, or I have to by his CD/DVD to get step 6. But, at the least, this last step at least gives hope that we can get to know that “deeper emotional truth” of a man.
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